Mini-Vacay to the Dunes

We've just returned from a really wonderful BEACH vacation...in Indiana. Yes, that's INDIANA. Who knew?!

Ahhh...just spent the last four days in a beach community among waves and sand and seagulls all in our own Hoosier state - and our stay was awesome.

Delayed due to construction, we were unable to get to our hotel in time to do what we had orginally planned (having dinner with our friends, The Joppek Family), so we had to rearrange. Once we finally arrived at our hotel we quickly loaded up again and headed out for a quick dinner (Noodles & Co - we HIGHLY recommend!) and tried to catch the double feature at the local drive-in movie theater, The 49'er. What a great atmosphere! We'd never been (at least, not that we can remember) and it was obviously McKinley's very first movie at a theater, so it made for some great memories. We popped the hatch in the Murano, plopped down, munched on some popcorn and watched the movie (G-Force - which, sorry Disney, we don't recommend). It was late, so we didn't make it through the second feature, but we didn't care...we had a wonderful time and the pics prove it.

The next day the three of us headed to a small town called Chesterton for their weekly European Market. Cary and I joked that we felt like Ina & Jeffrey from Barefoot Contessa as we strolled through the lot taking in the sights and sounds, sampling cheeses and smelling gorgeous flowers. We ended up with some delicious blueberries, crusty whole-grain bread, herb-infused monterey jack cheese and some freshly baked cookies for an impromtu beach picnic, plus we scored some HUGE zucchini and summer squash to take home and a very large beef chew for Luther. I was in awe, this open-air market was incredible!

We took our yummy treats and headed to the Indiana Dunes State Park. As we made our way from the parking lot to the beach I was completely gobstruck at the number of people. For a second I thought it was 1999 and I was back at South Padre! It was packed! We made our way down, McKinley holding down the sand toys and such while riding in his wagon, spread our blankets and prepared for some fun in the sun.

We didn't expect to have THAT much fun, but we did. So much fun, in fact that we stayed ALL day. We kept reloading on the sunscreen and seeking shade under our little fort in between trips to the water. McKinley really enjoyed his new sand toys - a bday gift from the Joppek's, and loved building sand castles and sifting for rocks with Mommy & Daddy.

As the crowd cleared a little the three of us went out into the water where McKinley could easily walk out about 10 or 15 feet. We splashed and jumped and threw rocks and just let the waves rush in on us.
I didn't want to leave, it was gorgeous and relaxing. The perfect break we needed.







That night it was pizza and a swim in the pool - then we all seriously dropped! SO FUN!

The next morning we headed out to go visit with the Joppek's. McKinley and Lila had fun in the backyard and Lila even thought to share her smarties with McKinley. It was a nice visit and we were so glad to get to spend some time with them!

The rest of the day we shopped, swam and enjoyed dinner at our favorite restaurant in Valparaiso, Pesto's. YUM!

I just can't say enough about how much we enjoyed ourselves. I'm ready to plan our next trip to the BEACH!

Lynn

P.S. In honor of our sweet Lincoln we took this picture for his Mommy & Daddy, BECAUSE........It's LINCOLN'S WAY or the HIGHWAY! ;-)

Sweet Little Moments

I'm posting much later than I'd like to be, however today was a very busy day - so fit it in where ya can!

Technically speaking this happened YESTERDAY, since YESTERDAY was like 50 minutes ago...but I'm calling it today since I'm still up. hahaha

TODAY McKinley had some seriously cute moments that I had to blog about. I have only been blogging about big things lately and not the small things that I love so much. Don't get me wrong - the big stuff is awesome, and GOD KNOWS I live for a party, but little moments like these - ahhh, the stuff life is made of;

While getting McKinley ready for bed, Cary was sitting on the recliner in McKinley's room while I did the pj's. Cary was playing with this pretty rosary someone gave me that I have hanging on the lamp. McKinley, Mr. Inquisitive said, 'What's that???!!!' I told him it was a rosary and could he say ROSARY?

He said, 'ROSIE!!!'

We laughed out loud.

Cary asked, 'McKinley, what is this again?'

'ROSIE!'

So, fellow Catholics, the new chic term for rosary is none other than...ROSIE! Consider it the short version.

I sat down to do bedtime stories tonight, after we were done McKinley jumped down from my lap and was gone. I called for Cary, 'Where is McKinley???'

'I don't know...'

uh huh.

I found McKinley tucked neatly under Daddy's arm...in our bed. CUTE!

We asked if McKinley wanted to lay with Daddy for a little while - why not??? It's Cary's much deserved vacation. He said, 'Lay down with Daddy!' So, Cary asked that McKinley tell me good night. Here's where the tears come...McKinley said, 'Mommy - kiss?' and he grabbed my face and pulled me down to kiss him, where he then held my face for a few more seconds and said, 'Good night, Mommy.'

Oh my heavens.

In that moment my heart melted.

I have the most cuddly, sweet-hearted lover boy ever. I swear I do.

When he requests, 'Mommy, cuddle?' some mornings I could just cry...and sometimes I do! lol

I love little moments like these that make everything happy and good in the world.

Sweet, sweet little moments.

Lynn

Little Getaways and Big Milestones

Just got back from those monthly trips to Indy that we've been doing for over a year now. We're close to being done...two more months and Cary's juror days are o.v.e.r.

This time, while Cary worked McKinley and Mommy played! We had so much fun in the pool at the hotel - the first day that is all we did all day long! McKinley loves to be in the water, so we swam and kicked on his little aligator kick board, then he jumped into my arms from the side of the pool - he loved it. Every few minutes we would watch a big airplane coming in for a landing - seriously a close up view. McKinley was obsessed. He's say, 'Here comes, Mommy!!!' when we'd hear the engine roar.

The best part of THAT day happened while we watched for one of these planes to come in. McKinley and I were counting down until we'd see another plane when out of no where he started counting to 10...on his own...unprompted by me. I nearly swallowed the pool. Yuck, but worth it.

On our last day it rained...and rained...and rained. So, we packed up where Cary dropped us off at Chase Tower to eat at the Bistro -it was VERY cool and McKinley really enjoyed watching all the buses. There were a LOT of buses.

Later we headed off for the Children's Museum where we stood in lines all day long. Never have I seen this place so flipping packed! The construction is done and it's unreal. The convenience is outstanding, I'm seriously impressed. Doctors offices should be run like this. Oh wait...my Mom's is! lol

Anyway, we rounded the corner and McKinley let out this loud giggle - he knew exactly where he was. Unfortunately, once again we had to wait in line to go into the playscape, but when we did McKinley went into action. He was everywhere, but he did spent a lot of time at this giant wooden box that has doors (surprise --- doors!) and gobs of foam blocks to shove inside. So that's what he did...in and out with the blocks. Until this precious Brittish Boy came up to McKinley and took a block. The Dad was not happy and immediately insisted he return the block. I told him it was okay and that McKinley was just throwing them. The young boy came right up to me and said *insert cute, thick Brittish accent* "Excuuuse me, might I play with your son's blooocks as well? We'd like to put them on the traaaaain."
I melted.

At that moment if there'd been a block on the ceiling I would have gotten it for this sweet, polite child with the darling accent.

He kept it up too...he interacted with McKinley, crawling in and out of the giant box, swapping blooocks and telling me stories of his train loading adventures. He's say, 'Ohhh! This would fit lovely on the traaaain.' I was mezmerized. This sweet family, oh, they were so polite and had the best accents! I wanted to invite them to dinner with my family but thought it perhaps a bit stalker-ish.

I'll never forget that little Brittish boy and his blooocks. Cute.

So, on with the play! McKinley, who had been equally as entranced with the Brittish boy, eventually moved on to other great places; the water table (where he only wanted to dunk his hands and then go hit the button on the hand dryer), the sand table (where he thought it might be fun to jam his rake into the sand and then stick it in his mouth real fast - ugh), the lawnmower (where I served as guardian of the public's feet - you are all very welcome), coloring (where we made rubbings of a carousel horse) and loads of sliding, climbing, scooting and rolling.

I finally persueded McKinley away from the playscape - reluctantly, of course - to come with me to see those pretty horsies again. I even promised an elevator ride - so much for trying to fit in extra walking, my kid LOVES the elevator, especially those big, bright buttons.

We got up to the carousel and my heart sank...we had to pick up Cary soon and the LINE was FIFTEEN minutes long. I didn't care, we have to do this, it's OUR tradition! So, I got a token and prayed the line would move quickly...and it did! We were on there in no time! McKinley picked out his own horse this time, I strapped him in and off we went! He was even bold enough to gently push my protective arm away as if to say, "I got it Mom. I'm a big boy now." Little did he know, my arm was still there, grazing his back. hee hee hee

We had a great time on this trip, those Children's Museum visits are so much fun. Can't say enough about it!

Good times!

Lynn

How about a Handy Manny Party?

Today was McKinley's 2nd birthday party - it is completely nuts to try to come to grips with the fact that our precious baby pictured all the way over there on the left is a full blown two year old...baby no more. So, before I get into all the party festivities Cary and I had planned I've got some deep thinking I have to add.
There are times in my life where I have to practically step back out of a moment to take a breath. It catches me completely off guard when it happens. God has truly blessed us with some amazing people and equally amazing moments - all who have made me appreciate life in a way I never thought possible. Today I had a lot of those moments:
*People who will, in friendship drop everything they are doing to help a girl out who just went into full crisis mode because of some ground beef and balloons.
*The beautiful children who surround us in our daily lives.
*Seeing my friends' families grow and expand and watching all these people interact and interconnect.
*People who will take time out of their busy lives just to be with our son and watch him blow out candles on his Handy Manny Toolbox cake.
*Grandparents who will risk embarassment by wearing a retro Chi-Chi's host/hostess costume for their Grandchild's Fiesta just to see him smile.
*A husband who jumps at the chance to pull around a bunch of kids in a wagon - all while donning a sombrero and laughing the whole time.

Through a very difficult time I went through a few years ago, I've learned that life, for me is all about making the most out of this short time we are given on Earth. I think there are about 30 or 40 people who did that today right along with me! What an amazing day to spend with friends and family.

So, the party...
Put behind immediately due to the caterers not having our food ready, then not having given us the right amount of MEAT for TACOS (uh meat for 6 instead of SIXTY). Kylie came to the rescue and we had meat! All the phone calls I had to make left me with no time to prep the taco bar, in step Mary and Barb and everyone else who helped dice tomatoes, avacados and onions, run cheese, sour cream and other fixings to the food table and so many other wonderful helpers who fixed the mishap. Whew. Insane.

Finally, bellies were full and it was time to party! All the kids gathered around the giant freezer box sketched with Handy Manny's storefront (courtesy of Nonna). Each child wore an over-sized t-shirt with McKinley's 2nd Birthday screen printed on the front (I made them - I'm so proud!!!) then grabbed a set of paints (washable...) and an array of brushes and off they went! It was so cute to watch and the kids were well occupied for a long time. Savannah painted her toes (and foot...) purple, Lila only wanted pink, Lincoln wanted to taste the paint (non toxic...), Reagan stayed in the lines, McKinley used his fingers and the Gatrell kids tried splatter art, added words and even some blotting. The end result is pretty sweet, Manny would be proud.
Moving on...PINATA TIME! We hung the giant "2", filled with 4 pounds of candy from a tree and let each child take a whack. Mary delivered the pinata-busting blow then her big brother, Forrest sent candy flying - EVERYWHERE. I'm proud to say McKinley displayed some excellent technique with the Pinata Stick. That is clearly inherited from Daddy...not me. Like I had to tell anyone that.
On to the cake! All the grandparents and Cary and I climbed into my old Chi-Chi's uniforms (yes, we STILL have them...) and paraded outside with the tool box cake. McKinley did a pretty good job with his candles and LOVED us singing the Happy Birthday song. It was so cute.
McKinley had a fantastic time and we hope everyone else did too.
We had so much to do that we barely opened 5 of McKinley's gifts! We're adding that to the to-do list tomorrow on McKinley's official birthday. We were just too wiped!
Check out all the pics on the slide show. WHAT A GREAT DAY!

To Mother Nature - we will resume full-on recycling since you held up your end of the bargain...no rain. Can we do this EVERY YEAR???
:-)
Lynn

4th of July; Takes 1 & 2

Happy WET 4th of July!
Oh well, we made the most of it, indoors. It.Rained.All.Dang.Day.

I can hear the conversation between me and my mother-in-law now..."Remember the 4th of July where we stood in the rain to watch the fireworks?" We trekked through the CONSTANT rain to Bloomington to spend the weekend with Cary's parents. Our plans were to have a nice meal together and send all the boys outside to play! Wrong. No outdoor play today. Next, we planned to pile into the car and go watch the fireworks at IU. We did that...under umbrellas. We could barely see what was supposed to be a gorgeous display, but it was fun all the same! Seeing how happy McKinley was in his Grandpa's arms and announcing, "Done with fireworks!" several times as he became unsure of the big booms made it even better!

Of course, it cleared up today and the Terre Haute fireworks were rescheduled for this evening...thus, Take 2:

We made last minute plans with Kylie, Ben & Lincoln and Rick, Robin and Savannah to meet at the top of the old T.H. parking garage and watch our city's fireworks all together. This time it was much warmer and drier and man, did we have a view! You can't tell that in my pictures because I forgot to set the camera on 'fireworks'....duh.

McKinley kept ooohing and ahhhing and saying, 'Oh! Pretty fireworks!' and laughing hysterically. He was wound up with his little friends there!

I can't even explain how cool it was for me to step back and watch my son and husband with our friends together for something so fun and meaningful for our country. And had it not been for Kylie & Ben's GIANT CAN OF CHEESY POPCORN I have no idea how three toddlers would have so easily made it through an entire hour and a half of waiting and watching. Whew! I've already signed them up to bring the popcorn next year...what a lifesaver!

We had a wonderful holiday weekend -- me especially! What a treat to have my husband home on a SATURDAY! Yay for no mail! I didn't even care that it rained, it was just great to be together with everyone.

Happy Birthday, America!

Lynn

McKinley's First Pool Party

Some friends of ours, Kylie & Ben are moving into their new house and have some painting to do...sometimes this is difficult with a toddler/helper, so they needed some entertainment for Lincoln. Who better than McKinley?!
Mommy broke out ALL the kiddie pools and the boys played outside the entire 2 hours that Lincoln was with us.

My Mom was over and had a ball blowing bubbles for the boys and I had fun shooting them both down the slides! It was a great time - the first of many, I'm sure!
Lynn

Memorial Day Weekend

It's Memorial Day Weekend in INDIANA!!!!!!!!!!!!

That marks the world-famous Indianapolis 500, the unofficial start to summer and great cookouts!

Cary and I have been to the Indy 500 many times, but have yet to take McKinley - think we'll wait a few years for that, but being blessed as a true Hoosier, he will have the opportunity to see it many times!

Instead of hitting the track, we made our own fun at home. Sunday Cary had the chance to play some golf with his Dad and got some much-deserved 'me time'. While he was golfing I did some work outside and had Mom over for a nice breakfast on the patio with her grandson. McKinley hit the pool (see pics and post below) and seriously wore himself out. hahahaha I spent the whole day outside (with lots of sunscreen) it was a glorious day!

Monday we all packed up and headed to Indy with Mom for a Memorial Day cookout at my Godparents' home. We had great food, good times and got to celebrate Shelby's birthday. McKinley spent the day playing a ball-toss game with me and Cary, flirting with all the women, checking out the neighbor's coy pond and doing tricks for everyone's entertainment. He was NON-STOP.

We had such a great day in Indy for the long weekend!

Lynn

Vernon weekly recap

Whew-what a busy week!

McKinley said his full name for the first time (and well, I might add). More on that later...

We had a playdate with Lincoln that involved heebie geebies and a big ol' bore bee. The bore bee tried to make friends with a very unwilling McKinley while we attempted to eat our lunch. He actually followed us over to the playground, where McKinely AND I were equally as displeased with the whole mess. Then these LOVELY, giant swarms of large gnat-like insects dive-bombed our mouths, ears and eyes as we simply tried to play on the playground. McKinley kept shivering when the gnat thingies would hit his ears, so I asked if he had the heebie geebies. He promptly replied that he had, "Heebie Geebies in ears and eyes!" lol Yikes! This was even after the application of bug repellent! We got out of there! Despite Mother Nature's blessed insects we had so much fun with Lincoln and Kylie. Hope to do it again next week with even more of our friends!

My friend Robin and I headed to St. Ben's Longaberger/Vera Bradley Bingo (I didn't win, but Robin sure did!!! :-D ) while Cary took McKinley AND Savannah to the park together (Robin's hubby, Ricky had to work). Robin did great winning a BIG raffle prize, but Cary impressed me with toting around TWO toddlers for some park fun and a great dinner. WOW! Good night!

Mamaw was put in the hospital again, but is back home and doing okay. Thankfully, it was just a prescription change.

Cary played some golf with his Dad and I did some zumba with Jen.

We continued our big makeover of the house (I'm lovin' it!) and I finally finished my...

LAST.HOMEWORK.EVER.

Dum, dum, duuuuuuuuuuum

I became BFF's with the powerwasher (ugh) and McKinley discovered that three of his very favorite things to do all involve being 'OUTSIIIIIIIDE!'

*Watering our flowers and plants with his frog watering can

*Playing his self-invented ball toss game in one of his three kiddie pools

*Using the shower-like handle for watering flowers as a microphone for his adorable singing talent

By far, though, the absolute cutest thing ever this week was the repetition of McKinley's name, "Kinney Dane Bernon" as told by MSV himself. Translation: McKinley Shane Vernon

Seriously, it makes me CRY.

What a great week, we're off to a fabulous summer!

Lynn

Perfect Kite-flying weather

Today was amazing. The weather was so beautiful - not hot, kind of cool, perfectly sunny and breezy! The absolute perfect day to fly a kite. It was Cary's idea - and it was a GREAT idea - so we packed up the jogging stroller was various necessities, got on our active wear and walked about a half a mile to this huge open field at a nearby elementary school.

For Easter this year, we'd given McKinley an Elmo inflatable kite, we blew it up and Cary sent Elmo right up into the sky. McKinley was kind of amazed at first, then he started chasing Cary around the field as Elmo continued to fly. He just kept saying, 'Elmo fly!!!' Too cute.

After a while Cary showed McKinley how to fly his Elmo, he caught on quickly and loved watching the kite in the sky. We flew the kite for quite a while and reminisced about our own kite flying experiences. I think that's one of the greatest perks of parenting, if you take the time to enjoy it being a parent it's awesome because you can relive your own childhood experiences and also see the unbridled joy in your child's eyes all in one! How great is that? I have always loved holidays and doing fun things, but I notice that I am enjoying these holidays and experiences 100 times more than usual! Today though, I seriously enjoyed our beautful family moment and amid that moment I relived a specific time when my family and I flew a kite in our huge yard. My Dad had gotten this new, kite-flying professional thing that was like a big fishing rod. It took my kite up a bazillion feet higher (okay, not really a bazillion feet, but I was like 9...). I can still picture that thing. I can still picture my Mom out there taking our pictures. I think my Dad had so much more fun with that new toy than anyone, but it was pretty cool to have something like that. Cary also remembers flying a kite in his childhood, we had fun rehashing these stories this afternoon.

After we finished flying the kite we played on the school's playground, then walked over to Subway. On our way home we decided to stop off at Rural King - the place where McKinley first saw his chickies. Well, the chickies are all in their new homes so we missed them, but he did rather enjoy throwing pennies in the decorative pond. He just kept saying, "Mommy, I throw a penny!" So cute!

We got home and McKinley and Cary rested on the big overstuffed chair, where McKinley literally fell asleep on Cary's chest - like the old days, as Cary said. Our boy was exhausted, but he had so much fun! We all did.

What a happy Sunday afternoon!

Lynn